Good morning Sean. So glad I stopped by to read your words today. You write so honestly about grieving and the everyday milestone. A celebration everyday. It's humbling to read you! Ouch for the pube shaving and the bike ride. I felt that too!
Thankyou so much! It's comments like yours that make it easy to continue writing with authenticity so I do really appreciate it :) (sorry about the shared pubic history 😂😂)
I’m so glad this popped up on my Substack, thanks for sharing so honestly with us Sean! As someone who has a dear friend in the depths of a gambling addiction currently, your journey gives me hope
thankyou Ellery! it's a hard road but one worthwhile. I really hope your friend is about to get the help they need. happy to give advice if you need! :)
Thankyou so much! <3 I agree. Anybody who finds sobriety in the midst of addiction has put in obscene levels of work behind the scenes to get where they are.
1.5 years is truly impressive. That kind of self-discipline takes a lot of strength. It’s not easy to walk away from something that’s been such a big part of your life.
The thing is, though, when you've had that kind of rush, that excitement, it doesn’t just disappear. You can say you've quit, but sometimes, that feeling lingers in the background. Almost like a part of you knows you’ve got the control to handle it now, even better than before.
It’s funny, isn’t it? The things we walk away from, sometimes we’re better equipped to face them when we come back. Anyway, I’m sure you’ve made the right choice for yourself, but it’s good to see someone with that kind of strength. Not everyone can say they’ve come this far.
Yeah that feeling - that you might be able to control it again - is echoed in the GA room I attend. The counter/the defence to that is to keep showing up and listening to how badly it is affecting new people walking in. It helps remind (them) of just how bad it was for them.
Congratulations! And I know you feel lonely, but with that gorgeous red hair and a clean, whole spirit, you will be irresistible when the right person comes along!
Great read, thank you for sharing. I am also 28 and in recovery, so I agree it can be lonely, but it's not as lonely as the alternative!! Keep it up bro. Good things coming...
Enjoy that metabolism while you still have it 😄 I never know what smiley face to use. They all look creepy. Just know readers are here, grateful for your courage. I should stopped with the smiley face. ☺️
Thanks Beth!! :) Appreciate your comments :) I will add though, I certainly do not have a metabolism anymore 😂 but some days you have to not care, right?
Good morning Sean. So glad I stopped by to read your words today. You write so honestly about grieving and the everyday milestone. A celebration everyday. It's humbling to read you! Ouch for the pube shaving and the bike ride. I felt that too!
Thankyou so much! It's comments like yours that make it easy to continue writing with authenticity so I do really appreciate it :) (sorry about the shared pubic history 😂😂)
Congratulations Sean!
thankyou so much Meg!! 😊😊
Way to go friend! 👏
thankyou so much Hannah! :)
I’m so glad this popped up on my Substack, thanks for sharing so honestly with us Sean! As someone who has a dear friend in the depths of a gambling addiction currently, your journey gives me hope
thankyou Ellery! it's a hard road but one worthwhile. I really hope your friend is about to get the help they need. happy to give advice if you need! :)
Well done on your big day. I have to say, anyone who struggles with addiction and have stayed away from it, their big day is enormous. Well done!!!
Thankyou so much! <3 I agree. Anybody who finds sobriety in the midst of addiction has put in obscene levels of work behind the scenes to get where they are.
1.5 years is truly impressive. That kind of self-discipline takes a lot of strength. It’s not easy to walk away from something that’s been such a big part of your life.
The thing is, though, when you've had that kind of rush, that excitement, it doesn’t just disappear. You can say you've quit, but sometimes, that feeling lingers in the background. Almost like a part of you knows you’ve got the control to handle it now, even better than before.
It’s funny, isn’t it? The things we walk away from, sometimes we’re better equipped to face them when we come back. Anyway, I’m sure you’ve made the right choice for yourself, but it’s good to see someone with that kind of strength. Not everyone can say they’ve come this far.
Yeah that feeling - that you might be able to control it again - is echoed in the GA room I attend. The counter/the defence to that is to keep showing up and listening to how badly it is affecting new people walking in. It helps remind (them) of just how bad it was for them.
Congratulations! And I know you feel lonely, but with that gorgeous red hair and a clean, whole spirit, you will be irresistible when the right person comes along!
you know how to make a fella blush, Connie!!
Congratulations! Your strength and perspective are something to be proud of.
Thankyou Nicole 😊😊 I appreciate that. I owe all of it to those who were in my life that helped guide me through it, though!
Way to go Sean! You are a warrior!!
thankyou Rea :)
Great read, thank you for sharing. I am also 28 and in recovery, so I agree it can be lonely, but it's not as lonely as the alternative!! Keep it up bro. Good things coming...
DEFINITELY not as lonely as the alternative. Just saw your DM too - how insane!!
Enjoy that metabolism while you still have it 😄 I never know what smiley face to use. They all look creepy. Just know readers are here, grateful for your courage. I should stopped with the smiley face. ☺️
Thanks Beth!! :) Appreciate your comments :) I will add though, I certainly do not have a metabolism anymore 😂 but some days you have to not care, right?
Damn right! Treat yourself (another creepy smiley face follows) 🙂... 🤣 keep writing. I look forward to what's in store.
Absolutely. But it was only made possible through the help and kindness of others who had gone before
Thankyou so much Trave! that means a lot :) and yes, here's hoping! 🙂🙂